It’s not unusual for my little boy to be mistaken for a girl.
Usually I correct them without a second thought – carrying on the conversation and just saying “he” instead of “she”.
Sometimes people apologise profusely and seem fearful they’ve caused deep offence. Others (especially if they’re older) seem simply unable to process the fact he is a boy. And continue to say what a “pretty girl” he is.
But you’ve got to expect it when your son has long hair like Sonny Jim.
He’ll be two next month, and we’ve never cut his hair. When he was born, he had a full head of black, straight locks.
By the time he was a few months old it had thinned and lightened, but then it grew, and grew, going a gorgeous golden colour and falling into the sweetest curls. Continue reading